My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for a year now. During our time away I contracted HIV. My partner is still negative. Issues come and go, but a major problem for us has been sex both prior to and after my diagnosis. I am less interested in sexual intercourse than he is and this leads him to believe that I am not happy with him. The thing is that I have never been “WOW-ed” by sex with anyone. I can pretty much take it or leave it. I try to indulge him as much as I can, but there is never enough… I am personally fine with our sex life because sex doesn’t matter to me. I care about companionship and intimacy more than just the act itself. It makes me feel horrible to think that regardless of what I do to please him sexually he is not satisfied. Any thoughts? Read more…
